Narcissistic & Sociopathic Ideology Within Bloodlines

Have you ever been close to someone you thought was as good as gold for years and years only to eventually have had the mask of sanity unveiled itself to find out that they were actually the most crafty, manipulative, devious, deceitful and deceptive outright liar that you had ever met? Someone who has the whole world around them fooled by their pure exterior, no-one knows that their facade isn't real. Someone who has successfully been taking advantage of and manipulating the people around them for years on end without any of the victims even realizing it. The victims may have suffered but the narcissist or sociopath has them fooled, they would be the last person the victims would ever dream of being capable of such deceit, it would be outlandish.

It appears to the victims of the narcissist or sociopath that even the nearest and dearest of their family members are even fooled by their natural and geuine seeming false exterior. They play the victim sucking on the empathy of the people closest to manipulate them into covering up any lies and deceit they may know about. Whilst this may be true to an extent it's also likely that there are probably a few family members who know how deceitful they are but at the end of the day blood is thicker than water and you can't choose your family. The people closest to the narcissist or sociopath has been actively helping them abuse their victim/s and their dirtiest darkest secrets often remain concealed and hidden for decades whilst their reverse psychology propaganda destroys the lives of their victims.

Narcissistic Ideology

"What they don't know won't hurt them.", "You will believe my lies because they are the truth", "I never said or did that you're making it up" and "You're paranoid it's all in your head" are all examples of malignant narcissistic ideology. This defense mechanism has evolved over several years of exposure to negative subjective experiences (abuse) and is often a result of being brought up as part of a family that uses such defenses to protect theirselves from potential abusers. Even the wife or husband of a narcissist or sociopath will be subject to such defenses. However, it's not uncommon for mental, emotional, physical and even sexual abuse to be existent within such families but there seems to also be a kind of universal law within these families. They turn a blind eye to each other's tactics and use manipulation to regulate their self-esteem, it acts as a pyschological ascension of self-worth making them feel less inferior within society. They manipulate people outside of their inner circle keeping them at arms length and have very little respect for the law viewing the police as the enemy.

Narcissistic and sociopathic family members use and manipulate each other and hide each other's secrets springboarding off each other. The family often have their own invisible web of lies, distortions and deceit above the heads of everyone around them and outside of their perception. They protect each other's lies because in their minds that's what they are there for. Although this twisted narcissistic logic may be present throughout the family, it will only be to the extent of a full-scale personality disorder in just a few related members although others may display similar characteristics. Paternity fraud intentionally being covered up long-term by the family is the perfect example of narcissistic/sociopathic abuse. Everyone involved have all victimized the innocent alleged father who will have inevitably been conspired against.

Genetic Or Psychological?

There are currently two schools of thought regarding the cause of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (and other similar disorders). Due to EEG's showing a lack of activity in the parts of the brain responsible for empathy, shame, guilt and conscience many researchers blame the personality disorders on a genetic defect. However, psychology and genetics actually affect each other in the same way that the conscious and subconscious mind feed each other therefore the genetic defect could be a result of the ongoing ideology within such families and/or vice versa. Within the psychological community it is well known that most narcissists and sociopaths have been subject to childhood abuse, most notably sexual childhood abuse in a lot of cases therefore psychologists tend to lean towards the belief that the disorder is actually a defense mechanism which has evolved over many years in order to deal with this abuse. A defense mechanism that has been installed in the mind of the narcissistic person. Using psychological methods to attempt to uninstall such a defense mechanism can cause detrimental changes unless the structural foundation of that defense mechanism is fully understood on an individual basis. Attempting to delve down into the subconscious roots of this defense mechanism can be dangerous.

At the other end of the spectrum being overly smothered and spoilt during upbringing is still a form of abuse, though it is seldom seen as such and can still lead to malignant narcissism. This form of abuse can also lead a child into co-dependency, everything they ever needed has been catered for and they come to rely and depend on those around them in order to live their lives but their parents/guardians are not going to be around forever. This type of abuse can lead a person into becoming an inverted narcissist.

Narcissistic Bloodlines

It is known that malignant narcissism generally breeds more malignant narcissism therefore the trait is abundant within narcissistic families who have been brought up believing the ideology and abuse to be a normal thing. The fact that the part of the brain dealing with empathy, conscience, etc is inactive does not necessarily indicate the disorder is genetic. It has already been proven that not utilizing certain parts of the brain causes them to die off and become inactive anyway. This inactivity is most likely ultimately the result of the taught ideology within the family.

Narcissists and sociopaths are often highly charismatic genuine seeming people yet will walk over everybody in the background, behind the scenes, outside of their awareness. Many of them are highly successful because of their traits and it's inevitable that such people will end up sucking and leeching on each other whilst attempting to manipulate and fool each other in the process yet simultaneously using each other to springboard their way to the top during the course of their invisible battle. This is why so many narcissists and socipaths are at the top of the pyramid within successful businesses, companies and even government. They are ruthless.